Enugu woman threatens to dump Idoma husband over refusal to give her oral s3x because of Alekwu

Dear Editor,
Kindly share this piece on your-widely read platform but don’t’ disclose my e-mail.

I am from Nnsuka in Enugu and married to my husband from Orido in Otukpa, Ogbadibo.

We dated for three years before our marriage but due to my faith, there was no sexual intercourse.

However, since I got married to my husband, he has not satisfied sexually.
In fact, he’s comfortable with this missionary style and doesn’t care if I am okay or not.

The last time I tried to give him a blow job, he refused without telling me any reason.

So, last week, I made another attempt but he turned down my offer, so I insisted on knowing what his reason was, and he told me in his place, such act is forbidden.

I reported the case to his uncle, who is based in Otukpo, he also confirmed that married people don’t do that in their land because of Alekwu (gods).

He never told me all this while we were dating.

I can’t imagine myself cheating on my husband but I can’t cope with this boring sex life.

I think I need to excuse the marriage because we are just three months old.

Kindly share this.

Ify, Enugu

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