Nigerian men are heartless, wicked – Clifford Oche

#‎youarevalid‬ ‪#‎iamvalid‬ ‪#‎TransValid‬ MOTHERHOOD: Many times my womanhood is questioned by my ability to carry a child by people who view life based on fickle traditions. 

As a woman you are required to grow up, get married and have babies, only then you will be respected as a human being, but if you dare give birth to female kids you are automatically invalid……

It annoys me more when I see Nigerian women mistreated by their husband’s family member because they cannot bare children due to medical reasons or because they only gave birth to a female child! 

Ha! What is wrong with having a female child? THEY BLAME THE WOMAN FOR NOT HAVING A MALE CHILD. 

The man impregnated her in the first place! So much hateful liberty! You should be grateful you have a child!……

Sometimes women cannot have kids due to their husband’s/partners infertility, BUT NOOO, IT IS NEVER THE MAN’S FAULT, MEN ARE INVINCIBLE!
………. According to The Office of National Statistics in The UK
‘1 in 5 women are childless at 45’ ……….

Does that invalidate their womanhood because they cannot carry a child? Of course the womanhood police will scream yes! 

We are in 2015 for goodness sake! Adoption, surrogacy, and most importantly LOVE can make any woman a mother. YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE MARRIED OR CARRY A CHILD TO BECOME A MOTHER! EDUCATE YOURSELVES!